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分手后老想着复合怎么办？先想清楚这个问题

Are You Scared To Be Single?

你是害怕单身吗?

Too many people run back to the last person they were with because they're scared of being single—even though it can be a life-changing experience. "It can actually be a time to learn more about oneself and experience the greatest self-growth,”psychotherapist Mary Beth Somich tells Bustle.“Feeling lonely as a result of being single can actually inspire individuals to have new experiences that they would not have put themselves out there for otherwise."

太多的人是因为害怕单身才回到前任身边，尽管这项决定可能会影响他们的一生。心理学家玛丽•贝思•索密克告诉Bustle：“单身实际上是一个了解自我与自我成长的绝佳机会。 当人们因单身而感到孤独时，实际上会促使他们去体验恋爱时不会尝试的新鲜经历。”

Getting back together may feel like a good idea, and sometimes it is. Sometimes. Make sure you're taking a long, hard look at your past relationship and your reasons for wanting to get back together before you jump into anything.

有时与前任复合可能是个好主意，但也只是有时罢了。在急于复合之前，你必须要确保对曾经的感情和复合的理由深思熟虑过。

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