01. Marriage reveals your personality.02. Love should not blind a couple to the realities of their legal status as husband and wife.03. Compatibility is a condition of a successful marriage.04. Marriage seems easier to under stand for what it cuts out of our lives than for what it makes possible within our lives.05. Good people can create a bad relationship in marriage.06. In order to survive years of sameness and keep love alive in the family, the couple ought to attach great importance to choosing well.07. The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time friends before they realize they are attracted to each other.08. If the family life does not live up to the premarital expectation and not to be improved, some couples would choose divorce rather than staying together to suffer.09. When the passion no longer exists, there are more and more complaints and distrust in daily life.