And so then I realized, all the stuff that I had been doing proposing to Joshua,lying to Ross about why I couldn't come to the wedding... was all just a way -Oh,oh,oh,oh!I'm sorry,can I interrupt?I just want to say that you are a horrible, horrible person.Pardon me?You say you love this man,and yet you're about to ruin the happiest day of his life.I'm afraid I have to agree with your friend Pheebs.This is a terrible, terrible plan.But he has to know how I feel. -But why?He loves this Emily person. No good can come of this.Well,I think you're wrong. -Oh,no.Well,he doesn't really love her. It's just a rebound thing from me.You'll see. -Fortunately I won't.And by the way,it seems to be perfectly clear that you were on a break.