Putting on a wedding that was just canceled in less than a week was difficultbut it was still easy, because finally we were a team, a real team.And then, in the blink of an eye, it was the big day.Was it the wedding I'd always dreamed of? Well, let's see.Not only did the O'Shaunesseys show up, but they brought all five kids.The peonies I adored were, of course, out of season, so I had to settle for roses.The string quartet lost two of its members to strep.I think they were dating.So we had to go prerecorded.But looking out at everyone assembled, I realizedweddings aren't about the bride and groomthey're about everyone else.Marriages are about the bride and groom.And when you're walking down the aisle, all the little details mean nothingbecause at that moment it becomes clear