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How To Impress Literally Everyone You Meet
怎样给遇到的每个人留下好印象
- Meeting new people can be intimidating.
与素不相识的人相见可能让人心生畏惧。
Instead of worrying about how to make yourself feel comfortable,shift your attitude to focus on making the people around you feel comfortable.
不要担心如何让自己感觉舒适，改变态度，努力让你周围的人感觉舒服。
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If you're on your own at a party,join groups of three or more.They're typically more open to a new person.
如果你独自一人参加聚会，加入由三人或更多人组成的小圈子。他们更容易接纳新朋友。
Good job!
做得好！
When it's just two people,an unexpected third can feel like a crowd.
如果只有两个人的小圈子，你的加入会感觉像路人一样。
Don't wait for people to approach you.Approach them!
不要等着别人靠近你，主动靠近别人。
Smile warmly, stand up straight,and make eye contact.
温和地微笑，站直，进行眼神交流。
Good things come to those who initiate.
采取主动的人总是会有好运。
Here, have a beer.
请喝杯啤酒吧。
Remember these words:
记住这些词语：
- So, how about you?
你怎么样？
- Invite them to tell you about themselves and to go in the direction they're most excited to go in.
邀请他们告诉你自己的情况，按照他们最感兴趣的方向进行对话。
Well, this is awkward.
太尴尬了。
One easy remedy for an awkward silence is food.
避免尴尬最简单的办法就是谈论食物。
Recipes, diets, restaurants,everyone has something to say about food.
食谱，节食，餐馆，每个人关于食物都有一些话说。
Stand and smile on phone interviews.
电话面试时要站直，微笑。
This improves the quality of your voice and will make you sound more confident.
这会改善你的声音质量，让你听上去更自信。
Hello!
你好！
Wait three seconds before answering questions.It helps you process the question and you won't seem rushed or nervous.
回答问题之前先等三秒钟。这样可以帮你更好地思考问题，也不会让你听上去仓促或紧张。
When standing in a circle of people,open it up to allow a new person in.
和一些人站成一个圈子时，站开一点，允许新人加入。
You'll make a great impression on that person and on the other people in the circle.
你会给新加入的人和圈子中的人留下好印象。
- My mom plays ice hockey.- Wow.
我妈妈喜欢打冰球。——哇。
- When exiting a conversation,interrupt yourself, not them.
退出对话的时候，打断自己的话，而不是对方的话。
Make it clear that you enjoyed the conversation and that you have a reason for leaving.
明确表示自己喜欢对话，你有不得不离去的理由。
- But I have to go to work,but it was great to meet you.- Great meeting you!
-我必须去上班了，但是很高兴认识你。-我也很高兴认识你。
- (chuckles) See ya.
再见。
- See ya.
再见。
- Hmm, nice guy.
嗯，不错的小伙子。
- What a gentleman.- Yeah.
-真是绅士。-是的。
- If I had a daughter, I would let her date him.
如果我有女儿的话，真想让他们约会。
