MOURNING
哀悼

I am at peace with my loved one’s passing.
我平静地面对亲人的离去。
I am at peace with the grieving process.
我平静地面对整个哀伤的过程。
The mourning process takes at least a year.
哀伤的过程通常至少一年。
I have to experience the special holidays I shared with this person.
我必须一个人去过曾经和亲人一起度过的那些节假日。
I give myself time and space to go through this natural, normal process of life.
我给予自己时间和空间， 平静地经历这段自然的生命过程。
I am gentle with myself. I just allow myself to go through the grief.
我温柔地对待自己，让自己能够逐步走出这段哀伤。
After a year, it begins to dissipate.
一年之后，哀伤慢慢消散。
I am aware that I can never lose anyone because I have never owned anyone.
我意识到自己从来没有“失去”过任何人，因为自己从来没有“拥有”任何人。
And in what will seem like a twinkling of an eye, I will connect with that soul again.
就在一眨眼之间，我仿佛又能与他们的灵魂心灵交汇。
I feel surrounded by love now, and I surround them with love wherever they are.
现在我感觉自己被温暖的爱包围，无论他们在哪里，我的爱也将包围着他们。
Everybody dies.
一切生命都终将离去。
Trees, animals, birds, rivers, and even stars are born and die, and so do I.
树木、动物、鸟儿、河水，甚至星星，万物皆有生死，我也不例外。
And all in the perfect time-space sequence.
一切事物的发生都有其完美的时空轨迹。